
Brenda Lee Stevens White
30 July 1957 ~ 26 May 2005
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Merry Christmas
23 December 2007
Another Christmas is upon us and
you are
in my heart as always.
I still miss you as much as I
did my first Christmas without you.
I know in my heart you are watching over
me as you always did.
~ I Love You and Miss You as does
everyone you touched in your
short life on earth ~
Happy Birthday Brenda
30 July 2007
I Love You and miss you with all my heart.

12-14-06
Dearest Brenda,
There is never a day that goes by that we do not
have you in our thoughts and prayers. We miss you so much.
This is the time of year that you loved the most.
"Christmas". You always loved giving, but never expected anything
in return. This Christmas you will not be with us in body, but you will be with us in spirit.
Remember you are loved so much. Always in our Hearts.
Love,
Mom & Dad
12-17-06
My wonderful wife
Every day I wake up and you are with me. You come to me in so
many different ways. There have been times in the past year and a half
that I have lost my path, my direction, and sometimes even my hopes and dreams.
I let everything in my life fall apart because I didn't have you to keep me on track.
I have been affraid to move on because I don't ever want to loose you.
Last summer I met a woman that came out of nowhere. She had lost her husband
six months before I lost you and had isolated herself from the world. We
started talking and then spending some time together.
I have moved on but you are in my heart every day.
I love you and miss you and wish you were here.
I Love You
Gary
12-19-06
Christmas is my hardest time to be without you.
You are the most selfless giving person in the world.
We all miss you!!!
Your Grandchildren

Jakob Jamie
Isaiah Eliajh Johnny Marcus
We miss you Gramma
12-25-06
You will always be remembered with
our most precious thoughts.
We love you and miss you.
All your family and friends
I miss you with all my heart
You are my life

28 September 1985
~through eternity~
My inspiration, my courage, my drive, my guide, and the love of my life for 24 years. The most selfless person on earth. Brenda always thought of everyone else before herself. The most giving person anyone could ever meet and anyone that knew her will tell you this is true. She stood by me through good and bad and god knows we had our bad. It saddens me to think as our life was coming together so well that it was her time to pass. written 12-07-05
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As I continue on with life may you be the angel on my shoulder
to guide me til we meet again.
picture from 02-14-81

02-14-06
25 years ago today we met
and spent more than half
our lives together. So many
things I need you here to share
with me. My heart breaks every day.
I try not to cry but...
I miss you.
Brad Paisley & Dolly Parton
When I get where I'm going
On the far side of the sky
The first thing that I'm gonna do
Is spread my wings and fly
I'm gonna land beside a lion
And run my fingers through his mane
Or I might find out what it's like
To ride a drop of rain
Yeah when I get where I'm goin
There'll be only happy tears
I will shed the sins and struggles
I have carried all these years
And I'll leave my heart wide open
I will love and have no fear
Yeah when I get where I'm going
Don't cry for me down here
I'm gonna walk with my grand daddy
And he'll match me step for step
And I'll tell him how I missed him
Every minute since he left
Then I'll hug his neck
Yeah when I get where I'm goin
There'll be only happy tears
I will shed the sins and struggles
I have carried all these years
And I'll leave my heart wide open
I will love and have no fear
Yeah when I get where I'm going
Don't cry for me down here
So much pain and so much darkness
In this world we stumble through
All these questions I can't answer
So much work to do
But when I get where I'm going
And I see my maker's face
I'll stand forever in the light
Of his amazing grace
Yeah when I get where I'm goin
Oh When I get where I'm goin
There'll be only happy tears
Hallelujah
I will love and have no fear
When I get where I'm going
Yeah when I get where I'm going
01-18-06
What I miss most is
having you to hug, hold, and love.
I need to move on with my life
but I just can't find a way
to do that without you...
Christmas was Brenda's favorite time of year.

She loved to give - and continues her giving today.
Born to be an Angel
added 23 December 2005
Her true calling on earth is being fulfilled in heaven as
she watches over all that she loved.
Angels work through all on this earth that
are selflessly giving of themselves.
Christmas Eve 2005
added 24 December 2005
Merry Christmas
peace be with us all on Christmas Eve.
Christmas 2005
added 25 December 2005
Know that your hand of giving was felt
by all the children in your life.
We miss you.
My Sister
Brenda, the most loving, giving, selfless, loyal,
humble person I ever knew. A wonderful sister and
friend. Always accepted everyone for who they were,
rarely complained and made the best out of every
situation. The little things in life made her happy.
There was so much to learn from her. A beautiful
person on the inside and out.
She was a firecracker with a dry sense of humor, a
great smile and a funny laugh that was contagious. She
was always there for me and always will be. You remain
in my heart every day until I see you again. I miss
you so much Brenda! May you reap the rewards of your
life on earth in the kingdom of heaven.
This was the saying on the plaque I sent to
Brenda and the same year she sent to me,
thought that was pretty neat.
Knows where I dream to go -
Remembers where I've been...
Accepts me the way I am
And treats me like a friend -
She's someone who is there
No matter where and when...
Every time I am with her
It's like coming home again!
WE DO NOT NEED A SPECIAL DAY
We do not need a special day
To bring you to our minds.
The days we do not think of you
Are very hard to find.
Each morning when we awake,
We know that you are gone.
And no one knows the heart ache
As we try to carry on.
Our hearts still ache with sadness
And secret tears still flow.
What it meant to lose you
No one will ever know.
Our thoughts are always with you,
Your place no one can fill.
In life we loved you dearly;
In your passing we love you still.
There will always be a heartache,
And often a silent tear.
But always a precious memory
Of the days when you were here.
If tears could make a staircase,
And heartaches make a lane,
We'd walk the path to heaven
And bring you home again.
We hold you close within our hearts;
And there you will remain,
To walk with us throughout our lives
Until we meet again.
Our family chain is broken now,
And nothing seems the same,
But as God calls us one by one,
The chain will link again.
~ Written by Connie Dyer, BP/USA, Springfield, IL

Unchained Melody
~ The Righteous Brothers ~
Oh, my love
my darling
I've hungered for your touch
a long lonely time
and time goes by so slowly
and time can do so much
are you still mine?
I need your love
I need your love
God speed your love to me
Lonely rivers flow to the sea,
to the sea
to the open arms of the sea
lonely rivers sigh 'wait for me, wait for me'
I'll be coming home wait for me
Oh, my love
my darling
I've hungered for your touch
a long lonely time
and time goes by so slowly
and time can do so much
are you still mine?
I need your love
I need your love
God speed your love to me
added 12-06-05
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